Comments on: Why Social Networking Doesn’t Work

By: Akila

Akila — Tue, 22 Nov 2011 14:52:16 +0000

Steve, I ended up your blog while doing some research for our own social network. As you see, we are constantly looking at our own social network to see what can be improved and of course, to find out what’s wrong.

So what is my opinion on this post? I agree. I really like Point 1. Introduction is very important. That is the time in which we get into a trustworthy zone upon which we can build a relationship. That followed by point 2, 3 and 4 are also important for a healthy relationship.

I like it when people speak out the truth like this since when I do research, I end up on blogs where someone says what he “thinks” rather then what really IS. This blog post is what you feel and absolutely spot-on. Hence, points for me to ponder!

By: How to Quit Your Job

How to Quit Your Job — Thu, 27 May 2010 02:20:35 +0000

[...] Networking- Networking these days is over-rated. It isn’t all that it is cracked up to be but a few great connections can prove to be a valuable asset further down the road. Don’t just collect phone numbers, really connect with people and form relationships that have substance and meaning. There should be give and take within these relationships, don’t just look at these people as a way to get something you want. If you stick to the standard of collecting cards, you will see why social networking doesn’t work. [...]

By: fudge

fudge — Sun, 02 Aug 2009 22:19:32 +0000

“Networking” is just a polite term for politics. You’re supposed to be looking for people to use, and in return, you’re offering to be used.

Personally, I don’t engage in it much, but it’s a necessary part of business, to create marketplaces for exchanges of labor, influence, and customers.

The error is in mistaking these business relationships for genuine, human relationships. While there are some human relations involved in business, it’s mostly about money, and the relationships are all about money or power, ultimately.

Mistaking networking for real relationships is like mistaking sex with a prostitute for a real relationship. It’s business first.

By: Social Networking 2.0 « Hundred Goal$

Social Networking 2.0 « Hundred Goal$ — Thu, 23 Jul 2009 13:31:25 +0000

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By: Steven

Steven — Mon, 04 May 2009 01:10:28 +0000

You do make some great point that quantity of contacts can have positive effects on your networking ability, though it seems as though even some of those far-off contacts have some relevance to your life, at least at some point, and not just random people you’ve met at a networking event. There are times when it is appropriate to call upon these contacts, it is simply a matter of knowing when that time is.

By: Do You Dave Ramsey?

Do You Dave Ramsey? — Sun, 03 May 2009 22:34:03 +0000

I agree… and have some reservations.

I agree that quality out jumps quantity everytime. But sometimes, quantity is quality.

Sex might be an example but that’s off topic!

I know as I’ve navigated the job search I’ve reached out to folks on my contact list or “network” sheet to ask questions or to help faciliate introductions. Had I limited my network, I would have limited my reach.

At the same time… there are people on my list that I would not have contacted… unless the situation became more dire or urgent.

For this purpose I tier my contact list as to strength and proximity of the relationship. At least this is an approach I follow for my professional network.

Facebook on the otherhand… geez, there are some bozos posting so much crap on my page that I miss some of the good stuff from the people I want to interact with… I may have to do some pruning here too!

Thanks for sharing!
Dave

By: Chris Stoyles

Chris Stoyles — Mon, 20 Apr 2009 00:07:29 +0000

I absolutely agree and might do a facebook clean out myself this week.