Hiking the Na Pali Coast Barefoot

The Na Pali Coast in Kaua’i, Hawai’i is undoubtedly one of the most beautiful places on the entire island.  There are no roads along the coast, so the only way to enjoy the amazing vistas is either by helicopter, boat or on foot.  The Kalalau Trail snakes its way along the entire eleven miles of coastline, from Ke’e Beach to Kalalau Beach.  Our destination for our day hike was Hanakap’ai Falls, a 410 foot waterfall 4 miles from the trailhead.  I hiked barefoot.

Why barefoot?

Aside from the challenge of hiking over rocks, navigating tangles of tree roots, trudging through mud and traversing numerous rivers along the way, being barefoot brings a person closer to nature.  Instead of feeling separated from the Earth, you are now a part of the system.  Each step is focused and intentional.

As you walk, you feel the changing terrain.  The mud oozing between your toes, the warm rocks and algae covered boulders on the river bottoms.  You are mindful of each moment of the journey, your mind never wandering.  All your concerns melt away from your consciousness, your mind is unshackled and unplugged.

One step at a time, you are focused only on the next, not the previous nor the one five minutes from now.  In our daily lives, we are constantly concerned with the past and the future, rarely considering the moment in which we are currently occupying.  “Should I have done things differently?” and “What will I make for dinner tonight?”  invade our thoughts.  Rare are the times when we stop and say, “I am here, now…I am blessed.”

We are lost in the past and the future, neither of which are reality.  The moment is now and finding a way be mindful of this moment, right here, right now, is what walking barefoot along the Napali Coast was meant to do.

And it worked.

I focused on each step, one by one.  Where was the next spot to put my foot down without getting injured?  The soothing feeling of the cold water as I crossed a river, the childish happiness as the mud squished beneath my feet and through my toes.  Each step was intentional and unique.

In the moments when my mind wanted to wander and think of other things, I paid the price with an accidental kick of a rock or slip down the muddy slope; the sting of pain a “gentle” reminder to be mindful of my journey.

After reaching Hanakapi’ai Falls, I rewarded myself with a swim in the pool beneath the falls, watching the water cascade from hundreds of feet above.  I had reached my destination, one step at a time and even though I no longer needed to focus on where I was walking, I found myself enjoying the moment without concern for anything but absorbing the beauty in which I was surrounded.

Goal #10) Learn How to Surf

Today I learned how to surf.

Okay.  I learned how, I didn’t say I was very good at it!  Actually, I’m lucky to even be able to stand up and ride a wave.  I was falling off the board more than I was on it, though I was able to catch a couple of waves and even rode one all the way into shore.  Gnarly dude!

We spent a couple of minutes on land learning how to stand before getting right into it.  There’s no better way to learn than to just do it and figure things out as you go.  My first attempt lasted no more than a couple of seconds before I was off my board and into the water but now I had it figured out and my next attempt was the best of our entire lesson, when I rode all the way into shore.

The most difficult part of surfing isn’t surfing at all, it is the swim out into the water to catch the wave.  Besides the waves crashing against your face almost knocking you off your board, your arms get tired fast.  After a few times out I was ready to lay down and rest for a while.  If you want to get into shape, grab a surf board and hit the beach!

In all, the lesson took more than an hour and we could keep the boards longer if we wanted but Erin and I were both exhausted so we called it a day and have decided that we might rent boards in a few days and try out our newly learned skills.

If you find yourself in Kaua’i wanting to learn how to surf, go with the Margo Oberb Surf School on the south shore at Kiahuna Beach.  Our teacher, Jeremy, was as good as they get and he was enthusiastic about teaching and coaching us.  You’d be hard-pressed to find another instructor more willing to teach than Jeremy.  Mahalo Brah!

Click here to check out photos of my surfing lesson!!!

The Fisherman’s Parable

The following was written by Mark Albion, a New York Times best-selling author:

An American businessman was at the pier of a small coastal Mexican village when a small boat with just one fisherman docked.

Inside the small boat were several large yellow fin tuna. The businessman complimented the fisherman on the quality of his fish and asked how long it took to catch them. The fisherman replied only a little while. The businessman then asked why didn’t he stay out longer and catch more fish?

The fisherman said he had enough to support his family’s immediate needs.

The businessman then asked, “But what do you do with the rest of your time?”

The fisherman said, “I sleep late, fish a little, play with my children, take siesta with my wife, Maria, stroll into the village each evening where I sip wine and play guitar with my amigos, I have a full and busy life, señor.”

The businessman scoffed, “I am a Harvard MBA and could help you. You should spend more time fishing and with the proceeds buy a bigger boat, with the proceeds from the bigger boat you could buy several boats, eventually you would have a fleet of fishing boats. Instead of selling your catch to a middleman you would sell directly to the processor, eventually opening your own cannery. You would control the product, processing and distribution.

You would need to leave this small coastal fishing village and move to Mexico City, then LA and eventually New York City where you will run your expanding enterprise.”

The fisherman asked, “But señor, how long will this all take?”

To which the businessman replied, “15-20 years.”

“But what then, señor?”

The businessman laughed and said “That’s the best part. When the time is right you would announce an IPO and sell your company stock to the public and become very rich, you would make millions.”

“Millions, señor? Then what?”

The businessman said, “Then you would retire. Move to a small coastal fishing village where you would sleep late, fish a little, play with your kids, take siesta with your wife, stroll to the village in the evenings where you could sip wine and play your guitar with your amigos.

Goal #101) Visit All 50 States: Hawai’i

I arrived in Kaua’i, Hawai’i yesterday evening and will be spending the next couple of weeks exploring the island and knocking out a few of my goals in the process.

Aloha!

Wednesday Update: Not yet adjusted to the five hour time difference, I woke long before the sun began to brighten the horizon over the ocean and as I laid in my bed listening to the wind whistling through the palm trees and the rhythmic pulsation of the waves crashing against the shore, a rooster began crowing in the distance.  I tried to fall asleep again but my efforts were in vain.

After breakfast we drove up the coast to Tunnels Beach where I was able to swim in the Pacific Ocean, the first time I have ever swam in any ocean, and eliminated one of the five oceans on my List.  I must say that it was quite a first experience, too.  After only a couple of minutes of being in the water, a huge wave puked me back onto the shore without much of a warning.  I was knocked off my feet, twisted around and upside down before the wave finally released me.  A little later in the day I learned that yesterday the same thing had happened to a couple other people who weren’t as lucky as I, finding themselves with broken bones.

After our swim, we spent a couple of hours laying on the beach, caught in a battle of rain and sunshine.  The rains came heavy before the sun dominated the sky and any sign of rain disappeared entirely.  Moments later, the rain would overtake the sky once again, leaving us stuck in the middle of a downpour, waiting for the sun to return.  Neither has yet won the war.

In the afternoon we drove to Hanalei, a small town just down the road from where we are staying.  We wandered around the local shops and art galleries before settling down for dinner at Kalypso, where the chickens were roaming around the restaurant looking for a handout.  I would never have expected chickens in Hawai’i but they are more common than stray dogs in Latin America.

In many of the places I have traveled, what I imagined in my mind compared to what is the reality have never really compared.  Hawai’i is the exception…it really is paradise.

Thursday Update: I woke again this morning dark and early to the crowing of the neighborhood rooster.  After breakfast I took a lonely stroll along the shore, watching the waves break against the reef in the distance.  A pair of snorkelers made their way silently through the water.  It would be easy to lose track of the days in a place like this.  Time seems so…irrelevent.

It seems that, for now, the sun has won the battle with the rain.  The only drawback to such a victory are the sunburns we earned ourselves yesterday at the beach, leaving us with the feeling of hot razor blades slicing across our skin each time we venture from the shadows.  My only trip into the water today was brief, just a moment to try out my new snorkeling mask.  The rest of the time was spent sleeping on the sand or climbing the shade tree above us.

Friday Update: “Every picture is a postcard,” I thought to myself while taking photographs today.  Everywhere I looked, each time I turned around and whenever I saw something from a slightly different angle or in an altered light, I was in awe of the beauty surrounding me.

Each day has been an improvement upon the last and the majesty of Kaua’i is only intensified each moment I spend exploring.  Our main destination for today was Queen’s Bath, a natural pool along the northern coast.  Here, the limitless shades of blue of the ocean and sky contrast against the rich black of the lava rock.  Where blue meets black, a mist of white explodes and fades quickly into blue once again.

Giant sea turtles navigate through the turbulent waters, breaking through the surface only long enough to take a much needed breath of air before submerging beneath the crashing waves.  Words nor photos can ever capture the real majesty of this place.  The sights, the sounds, the smell of the ocean and the mist of the waves against your skin.

The only way to really appreciate this place is to experience its wonder in person.  I wish words were enough; I would love for everyone to be able to enjoy Queen’s Bath as much as I, but alas, words simply do not do it justice.

Monday Update: Under the waters surrounding Hawai’i is an entirely different world, one of abundant life and beauty.  Only a few feet from shore you find schools of brightly colored fish, sea turtles and eels.  All you need to explore this underwater world is a snorkel mask.

As I glided through the water, I watched the fish dancing through the water, caught in the perpetual ebb and flow of the tide.  A few feet in front of me I spotted a Mahi Mahi and over there, a Nunu Peke.  I swam a little further from shore where I encountered a Sea Turtle gnawing at the coral.  I swam alongside it for a moment before parting ways.

All around me, fish of all colors darted around and there, next to the coral, a Zebra Eel.  Wriggling across the bottom, the eel squeezed into a crack in the coral.  I hovered above, waiting to see it again.  There it went, moving silently into the next crack where it disappeared.

I swam a little longer before making my way into shore, in awe of the beauty in the ocean.  Again I am left with the thought that every picture is a postcard, only this time the pictures are memories captured in my mind.

Tuesday Update: What is tradition in today’s world?  As remote places become more accessible, traditions fade and societies become more homogenized.  Capitalism has removed traditions from their roots, transplanting them into hotel theatres and restaurants for tourist’s entertainment.  Simply buy a ticket and you can witness an “authentic” cultural experience from the comfort of your chair all while being served wine and beer.

An overly cynical perspective?

Tonight I attended a Luau, and while I enjoyed the music and dancers, I felt awkward.  The audience was filled with unenthusiastic tourists in Hawaiian print shirts and dresses.  The men looked pathetic, as if their souls had been sucked from bodies and the women seemed no more excited.

Is this what getting old is supposed to be like?  Trips to Hawaii to watch Hula dancers shaking their hips, sipping Mai Tai in a depressed fog?  When the dancers first came out, their faces reflected those of the audience, as if they had done these dances a few too many times for unappreciative tourists.  I was confused.  Weren’t Luaus meant to be celebratory?  Why did everyone seem so defeated?

The dancers were great.  After the first song, they warmed up and began to smile.  Their dancing was interesting and the music was nice, yet, it seemed plastic; artificial.  How authentic can a Luau be when its sole purpose is to entertain tourists?

After the show everyone lined up for pictures with the Hula dancers, myself included.  Rather than the “traditional” shaka hand sign, I thought it would be better to give a Peace sign instead.  Afterall, what is tradition anyways?

Wednesday Update: Ten miles and two hours away is Waimea Canyon, our destination for the day.  We were awake before the roosters and on the road shortly after 6 am.

When we arrived, the canyon was cloaked in a haze, the red dirt walls of the canyon disappearing in the distance.  Deep in the gorge, a river wound its way through the landscape on its way out to sea.  Floating on the wind was the sound of helicopter blades chopping the air, a moment later appearing on the horizon.  Dwarfed by the enormity of the canyon, the helicopter seemed no larger than a mosquito as it buzzed through the sky.

Further along the road we stopped at Kōke’e State Park, a breathtaking vista of an enormous canyon opening up to the deep blue ocean.  Trying to capture this place on camera proved impossible.  No angle could capture the scale of this place, let alone the epic view.  Here the helicopters flew by largely unnoticed and the boats along the shore looked smaller than ants.

We followed a muddy trail around the edge of the cliff for a mile before deciding to turn back.  The wet clay trail was quite slick and we were covered in mud to our knees.  Besides, how much better could the view possibly be a few feet further?  THIS was incredible!

37 Travel Tips, Tricks & Secrets for a Great Vacation

Travel can be confusing.  Where to go, what to see, how to get there, finding the best deals, what to eat, learning the culture, etc., etc., etc.  Since beginning to travel on a regular basis, I have learned a lot about what works and what doesn’t.  This list attempts to clear up many of the questions travelers new and old often have during their travels.  If you have any other travel tips, tricks or secrets, I’d love to hear them!

1) Be Willing to Travel Anywhere: The most affordable deals are always fluctuating.  If you are willing to travel anywhere in the world, you are better able to capitalize on these fluctuations.  If you are focused on one place, you may miss an opportunity to travel to other amazing destinations for cheap.  Keep your eyes open.

2) Avoid Peak Season Travel: The prices for flights and accommodations spike during peak travel season.  By avoiding peak season and traveling on the shoulder, you are able to benefit from smaller crowds and lower prices.  One drawback of traveling during the shoulder season is that the weather may not be as warm.

3) Fly During the Middle of the Week: Certain days of the week (Monday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday) are more expensive to fly simply because more people fly on those days.  Flying on Tuesdays, Wednesdays and Thursdays often yields significant savings.

4) Check Multiple Aggregators: Using flight aggregators can help save you time and money when searching for the best deal on airfare.  There are many to choose from and they often return the same results, though it pays to check them all as it is impossible to know if a deal may pop up somewhere.  Here are some aggregators that I use regularly:

Bing: This is my favorite aggregator.  It is convenient to use and has a Price Indicator which can help you determine if it is a good idea to snag a deal today or wait for prices to fall.

Kayak: I like this site because you are able to chose an option to be flexible in your travel dates, which can result in significant savings.

Tripeedo: This is a useful site as you are able to compare prices from many of the more popular travel sites such as Expedia, Priceline and Travelocity.

5) Check the Airline Website: In addition to using flight aggregators, check the airline website to compare the prices which are being shown by the aggregators.  Flight aggregators earn money through the fees airlines add to the base ticket price.  Sometimes there are discrepancies between the aggregators and purchasing direct with the airline.  It is worth your time to check around.

6) Fly on the Red Eye: Flights that leave early in the morning are often cheaper than those leaving a couple hours later.  Quick connections or long layovers also often provide opportunity for travelers to save money.  More than once I have spent the night camped out on the airport floor.

7) Avoid Non-Stop Flights: Direct flights are usually much more expensive than flights with multiple connections.  Making connections in other airports isn’t always free from stress and frustration.  Delayed flights have the potential to affect your ability to make your connection.  Long layovers are boring.  The savings that multiple connections provide travelers is usually worth a little inconvenience.

8) Fly Economy: Most people flying First Class do not pay for the luxury.  Budget travelers will arrive in the same city at the same time as those in First Class.  The seats may be less comfortable in Economy but the savings are significant.

9) Find Package Deals: If you have decided on a destination, check for deals on tour packages.  Often these guided tours will include the cost of your flight, lodging and transportation within the country.  They can provide you with convenience at reasonable prices.  A common drawback to these packages is that they often depart from an airport which is not local.  You will have to arrange travel to and from the departing airport.

10) Avoid Package Deals: The real benefit of package deals is the convenience they provide.  It can be more cost effective to plan your own itinerary and custom tailor it to your desires.  Weigh your options and decide if the convenience of a guided tour is worth the extra cost.  You may be able to do it cheaper on your own but it will require more planning.

11) Sign up for Email Offers: Signing up for weekly email updates about travel offers is a great way to find some of the best deals available.  I subscribe to TravelZoo’s Top 20 and each week I receive an email with deals that are simply amazing!  One drawback to many of these trips is that they depart from specific airports and the booking window is short.  You must act fast and have flexibility in your schedule.

12) Book Your Flight Early: If you are able to book your flight early you have the advantage of being able to shop around for the best deals.  I try to book my flights about 3 to 6 months in advance.  Any later and the flights are beginning to fill up and the prices begin to rise.

13) Book Your Flight Late: If you have flexibility, it could be worth your effort to hold off on booking until 3 to 4 weeks before you want to leave.  Sometimes airlines will drop their prices on flights that do not have enough passengers as a way to encourage people to buy.  This is a gamble and not something I recommend unless you have the flexibility to change your plans.

14) Don’t Book Last Minute: Whatever you do, don’t book your flight at the last minute.  Airlines raise the prices of their airfare for flights as the departure date approaches.  They do this to benefit from people who had to unexpectedly make a trip they weren’t planning.  Unless it is an emergency, plan ahead to get the best deal.

15) Check Prices at Nearby Airports: If you live in an area where it is possible to travel to multiple airports, check the prices of each.  By flying out of one rather than the other could save you hundreds of dollars.  For example, I live in Wisconsin, so I check the cost of  flying out of Madison as well as Minneapolis and Chicago.  On average, flights out of Chicago are cheaper since flights from Minneapolis often connect in Chicago.  The drawback to saving the money in my situation is the long drive to Chicago.  The savings would need to be significant to convince me to drive all that way.

16) Assign Your Seats Online: When you make a reservation online, you can choose where you want to sit.  If you forego this step, you might end up on the wing, next to the window with your significant other six rows back on the other side of the plane.  Often, people are willing to swap seats but don’t rely on the kindness of a stranger, assign your seats when you make your reservation.

17) Pack Light, Then Take Out Half: Avoid checked baggage fees on domestic flights by packing light so you can fit all of your belongings into your carry-on.  Figure out the things you can live without and leave them at home.  Most hotels provide shampoo, conditioner and soap.  Packing light not only saves you money on baggage fees but the less you drag along with you, the more mobile you are and the easier it is to get around.

18) Print Out All Reservations & Itineraries: Flight information, hotel reservations, transportation arrangements.  These provide proof of purchase and are useful in reminding you of when and where you need to be.  Keep them in a place where you won’t lose them and is easily accessible.

19) Know Airport Security Procedures: Airport security is possibly one of the most frustrating aspects of traveling, for no reason than many people simply do not know what to do.  No liquids over 3 ounces, take your off shoes, belt and jacket, have your computer out of your carry-on bag.  Pack your cosmetics and toiletries in your checked bag.  The less you carry through security, the easier this process becomes.

20) Don’t Park at the Airport: Parking at the airport is a waste of money.  Find a place to park nearby and take a free shuttle to the airport.  A small tip to the driver is customary and worth it when compared to the price of parking at the airport.  When you return, just give them a call and they’ll pick you up and take you to your car.  Shop around for the best deals.

21) Avoid Exchanging Money at the Airport: Currency exchanges in the airport are a ripoff.  They charge high fees for their services, giving you a poor exchange rate.  If you must exchange currency, find a local bank to work with.  Another option is to withdraw money at an ATM.  Be aware of your bank policy on foreign transactions as many charge a 3% fee in addition to the charge for making a withdrawal.

22) Carry Small Bills: In many countries large denomination bills are inconvenient, if not impossible, to use as many people are unable to make change.  Avoid this problem by carrying many small denomination bills.

23) The USD is Not Always King: Fewer countries are accepting the US Dollar as a form of payment.  It is a good idea to carry a supplement of Euros along with your dollars.

24) Stay in Hostels: Staying in a hostel isn’t only for high school and college students.  More and more hostels are catering to young families on a budget.  If sharing a room with a dozen strangers isn’t your idea of a good time, check if the hostel offers private rooms.  If you are traveling with a group, the benefits of the hostel are diminished.  Weigh your options carefully.

25) Camp: I spent a month on a road trip and a lot of the time was spent sleeping in a tent.  One morning I woke up to buffalo grazing near our tent, the next we were camped out in a snow bank at the foot of Mount Saint Helens.  The cost of a campsite can vary, from free to $30 or more.

26) Cook for Yourself: Eating at restaurants 3 times a day adds up fast.  Find a grocery store to purchase a couple of bags of groceries and do your own cooking.  If you stay at a hostel, many offer a shared kitchen where you can cook your meals.  By doing some of your own cooking, not only are you saving money but you are also avoiding unhealthy restaurant food.

27) Carry Snacks and Bottled Water: When you are out sightseeing, carry a backpack with snacks, a lunch from the groceries you purchased (see above) and a bottle of water.  While I was in Germany, each day we went out to explore we packed a lunch and brought something to drink.  We didn’t spend a dime on food the whole time.  Be prepared!

28) Find the Best Deals on Excursions: The best deal doesn’t mean the cheapest.  Compare prices as well as features.  What is the best value for your money?  While in Iceland, I had to have the most expensive volcano tour because I wanted to have the best experience possible.  I realized a little too late that no amount of money can clear the clouds from the summit and the less expensive tours might have been sufficient.

29) Walk or Use Public Transportation: Except in areas where crime is an issue, walking or public transportation are great ways to get around.  What might have been a $20 taxi ride will be a $2 bus ride.  Learn the public transit systems and use them.  In Europe, consider purchasing a Euro Rail pass that suits your specific travel needs.

30) Buy a Guide Book: Be your own tour guide!  Buy a book, read it and use it.  Almost always, I carry a guide book.  My favorite is Lonely Planet.  There aren’t many pictures but they are filled with a wealth of information.  They can help you plan a walking tour or give you ideas about what there is to visit while you are in the area.  I would recommend purchasing two types of books, one with practical information and one with a lot of pretty pictures.  This way you can see the places in addition to reading about them.  Besides, we all like looking at pictures.  Don’t leave home without one (or two).

31) Avoid Tourist Destinations: A quick way to spend a lot of money is to spend too much time in places with a high volume of tourist traffic.  We all want to see the landmarks.  What trip to Italy would be complete without the Leaning Tower of Pisa?  The trouble comes when we begin booking our accommodations in the heart of these areas.  By staying a little left of center, you can save a great deal of money and still have access to the sights.

32) When in Rome: When you are visiting another country, follow and respect the local customs and traditions.  While in Iceland we visited the Blue Lagoon, a popular geothermal bathing area.  Before entering the lagoon, it is required that you strip naked and shower.  If there is no other place in Iceland where a tourist stands out, it is in a shower room filled with naked people.  How do you spot the tourists?  They are the ones with the personal insecurities who are still wearing shorts.  Respect the customs and traditions.  That’s what sets you apart from being just another turista.

33) Learn a Couple Basic Phrases in the Local Language: Please and Thank You go a long way and showing that you care enough to learn even a couple words shows people that you respect them and their country.  That said, many people around the world speak English.

34) Connect with People Who Live There: “Take time to talk with the locals. They can really help you find the best places to shop, eat & tour. You really never “know” a place unless you make that human connection.”

35) Avoid Buying Souvenirs: Souvenirs are a waste of money.  Check the markings on that trinket you are about to buy and I’ll almost bet it will say “Made in China”.  So, you went to São Paulo to buy a nick knack from China?  Neat!  For a more meaningful artifact from your journey, see the next tip.

36) Take Photos: Of people.  If your vacation photos are only of the landscape or architecture “you might as well have bought postcards” at the souvenir shop.  Get in front of the camera and smile big!

37) Take a Bump: Want to earn a free flight?  Be willing to give up your seat to someone who wants it more than you do.  Plan for the possibility of getting bumped by scheduling your return a day early to allow flexibility.  A trick to getting bumped is to ask whether the flight is full.  If the person at the desk confirms that it is, let the folks at your gate know that you are willing to delay your flight if they need volunteers.  Then, collect your free ticket and wait for the next flight, which could be in a few hours or tomorrow.

Goal #54) Visit Eldon, Iowa

Finally!

Visiting Eldon, Iowa has been a goal of mine for the past few years and despite having been in the area more than a dozen times, I never made the journey.  There was always some sort of reason not to go, the most convenient of which was always that it was “too far out of the way.”  That changed today when Erin and I took her niece on the three hour drive and played dress up at the house that inspired the famous painting by Grant Wood, American Gothic.

Was it worth the drive?  As silly as it might sound to drive three hours through the cornfields of Iowa to put on costumes and strike the same parodied pose as thousands of others, yes, it was worth the drive!  The one person staff seemed genuinely happy to see us and even helped us into our outfits.  She  followed us outside and took our photo, a photo which she has obviously taken hundreds, if not thousands, of times before.

We spent the rest of our time fooling around outside of what is quite possibly the most famous house in America (except, of course, the White House).  After taking some goofy pictures of us pretending to attack each other with the pitchfork (a real pitchfork, I might add), we visited the little museum and gift shop.  We dropped $5 into the donation container along with a Hundred Goals business card before leaving.

If you would like to see pictures from our visit, click here.

A Life of Quiet Desperation

Today’s article, A Life of Quiet Desperation, is being hosted at Money Relationship.  Here is an excerpt to whet your apetite:

The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation.

     -Henry David Thoreau, Walden, 1854

Deep inside us is a smoldering desire for something more, something better, something…else.  We ponder the things in our lives that could be different, how our lives could be more satisfying, if only…  We dream of following the ambitions in our heart, of throwing caution to the wind and just focusing on being alive in the moment.

Continue reading this article at Money Relationship…

A Weekend Staycation

Erin and I are both a little nerdy.

Each of us has a National Park Passport that we stamp whenever we visit a park, just like a real Passport when visiting a foreign country.  Its fun, the stamps are free and we don’t buy any other souvenirs while we are traveling.  We just carry around our little books wherever we go.  Last summer we collected 21 stamps from all over the Western portion of the United States, from North Dakota to New Mexico.

On Friday we finished our last day of summer classes and instead of sitting around for the next week whining about how bored we were, Erin and I thought it would be fun to take a spur of the moment road trip.  Living in Wisconsin, there aren’t too many destinations but there are a couple of places we could visit to get our Passports stamped; Voyageurs National Park and Apostle Islands National Lakeshore.  We began checking the maps and planning our route.  Neither of us had ever been to Manitoba and Winnipeg wasn’t too far out of the way.  First stop, Canada!

I printed off the directions and we went to bed.

The next morning we packed our bags and hit the road.  Six hours later we were going through Customs at the Canadian border.  A word of advice; if you want to ensure an intimate experience with Border Patrol, try driving into a foreign country without any reason, with no reservations and no knowledge about the city you are visiting.  We were pulled aside when we entered Canada and  on the way back when we returned to the United States.  We were drilled with questions by half a dozen officers both ways and each country searched our car.

After half an hour of answering questions and learning about the laws of Canada, we were on our way to Winnipeg.  When we arrived, neither of us were impressed.  We drove through the city, around the city and across the city before finding their Capitol, which was a handsome building.  We stopped to take some photos and ventured inside a few minutes before closing time.  The guards were very friendly and let us in to explore.  Huge statues of buffalo flanked either side of the marble staircase leading to the rotunda.  After driving around the city for another hour, we found a hotel and called it a night.

Tomorrow’s destination became International Falls in Minnesota.  When we finally made it we asked the gas station attendant what there was to do in the area.  “Nothing.”  Then I asked where the falls were.  “There aren’t any.”  Seriously?  Well, isn’t that nice!?  We laughed and joked a little before deciding to push on to Voyageurs.  After a short drive we made it to the park, got our Passports stamped and went on a stroll along the lakeshore where we watched a mother duck swim alongside her ducklings as they popped in and out of the water.

If you are ever visiting Voyageurs, it would be in your best interest to do so with a boat of some sort.  There are a few hiking trails in the area but almost all of the camping is on the islands off the main shore.  We didn’t have a boat so we thought we might be able to take a boat tour with the park service.  We found a Ranger and asked when they offered guided tours.  “Not until next weekend.”

We decided to drive to the next visitor area and see what was there.  The map showed a hiking trail along the shore, maybe that would be nice.  When we found the trailhead, it was about 100 yards of trail.  A bit frustrated, we made the best of our time at the park.  We caught a turtle and played with a chipmunk, took some photos and finally headed to our next destination; the Apostle Islands in Wisconsin.

By the time we arrived it was dark and we found a hotel on the shore of Lake Superior.  The next day we could scratch Goal #46 off my list, Kayak at the Apostle Islands.  We found some brochures from a few companies and decided to call them in the morning.  We hit the streets in search of food and found a tavern where we had cheeseburgers and homemade french fries.  In anticipation of a fun day tomorrow, we called it a night.

When we woke up, I looked out the window to find Lake Superior cloaked in a thick fog.  The people on the streets were wearing rain coats and sweatshirts.  The weather hadn’t turned out as the forecast predicted.  It was cold, windy and wet.  Going kayaking wouldn’t be enjoyable, so instead we went on a boat tour around the lake where, through the fog, we were able to see the islands.  The most spectacular of these islands is Devil’s Island.  The shore is riddled with beautiful sea caves in the red sandstone cliffs.  Seeing these formations in person really got me excited about kayaking around the area and we are already talking about visiting again later this summer when the weather is better.

After our tour, we headed back home.  We saw a lot of places and even though we didn’t get to do very much, we still had a lot of fun.  Being on the road exploring beats sitting on the couch in front of a TV any day.  I was able to add another Canadian province to my list and I got to see some really beautiful places.  I can’t wait to get back to the Apostle Islands in a couple of months!

Three days, 3 states, 2 countries, 1,200 miles and 2 National Park stamps…

Finding Internal Peace

What is internal peace?

This is a question people have been chasing the answer to for centuries.  Entire religions have been founded on the premise of finding internal peace.  The Dali Lama has said:

We can never obtain peace in the world if we neglect the inner world and don’t make peace with ourselves. World peace must develop out of inner peace. Without inner peace it is impossible to achieve world peace, external peace.

At the beginning of the year, finding internal peace became one of my many New Year’s Resolutions and since beginning my search, I have pondered what exactly this means.  At the time when I added finding internal peace to my list of resolutions, I was doing a lot of thinking about my own mortality and a better way to have worded my resolution might have been “Come to terms with the reality that I will someday die.”

It has been difficult to reconcile the reality of my eventual death with my human desire for immortality but less than being afraid of death itself, what takes place after I die leaves me with an uneasy feeling.

The Meaninglessness of Time: The very moment we pass the threshold into the afterlife (you can decide what that means to you), time lacks any meaning.  A second may as well be an eternity.  While life for the living ticks by every second, time is irrelevant to the dead.

Leaving Loved Ones Behind: I hate the idea of losing people I love and even more, the thought of leaving my loved ones behind.  After I die, I won’t be able to be there for the special moments or in the times of need.  There are no more opportunities to create memories, to tell them how much they mean to me and I the words ”I love you” will never escape my lips again.  When the time comes, I won’t be there to comfort the ones I love as they make their transition into the afterlife.

What Happens When I am Gone: Human history isn’t only the past but today and eventually the future.  I wonder what will happen to the world when I am gone.  How will the world view the blink of time we are currently occupying?  I wonder about what will happen to humanity after I have died.  Will scientists find a cure for a serious disease the day I die?  Will the world experience wars and conflict that tear down the political systems and boundaries as I knew them throughout my life?  Will America become the next Roman Empire?

The Transitional Nature of Life: Nothing is forever.  As much as we would like to believe that the world we know today will always remain, it won’t.  It can’t.  The reality is that the world is in constant transition.  Just as people live and die, so does everything.  If you look back at the history of man, the relics we are left with are relatively recent and few and far between.  Nothing is static.  Will the same happen to our society?

People spend a lifetime trying to understand the meaning of life and seeking the elusive state of internal peace.  After six months of searching, I may not be any closer to having the answers to these questions.  What I have concluded is that no one wants to die and only those who are on the cusp of death can accept the reality that they will die.  Maybe finding internal peace isn’t all that it is cracked up to be.

Instead of seeking internal peace and trying to come to terms with our eventual death, we should enjoy every moment we are blessed with the energy of life.  Instead of trying to figure out the meaning of life, live a life of meaning.  Coming to terms with the reality of our mortality shouldn’t happen until the very day when we must face death in a more intimate way.

We must have a greater appreciation for the moments that are spent with our eyes open.

To Hell With the Path of Least Resistance

Turning dreams into reality is a formidable task.

Seeing your dreams through to fruition requires dedication, hard work and sacrifice.  In the pursuit of your goals you will find yourself faced with self-doubt, frustration & fear.  So many people who were once filled with ambition never reach their goals and find themselves wondering what could have been, “If only…”  Success doesn’t come easy and you can’t place yourself on the path of least resistance if you expect to have an extraordinary life, the life you’ve always dreamt of.

Being successful at accomplishing your goals means creating your own path and taking risks.  During your journey to success you will have moments where you find yourself full of fear; fear of failure, fear of success, fear of the unknown, fear of other’s opinions.  When you stumble, self-doubt will invade every crevice of your consciousness and you will second guess your ability to create your desired reality.  Failures will bring frustration and you will become your own defeatist.  You will tell yourself that no one will care if you quit.  Maybe no one will care whether you give up on a dream or not but your dream or goal isn’t for someone else, it is for you.  As much as you try to convince yourself that a goal isn’t important, it is important…to you.

By taking the path of least resistance you will continually find yourself firmly planted in a life of mediocrity.  Sure, there will be moments of success and there will be happiness, satisfaction and joy in your life but there will also be a lingering feeling of failure knowing that you gave up on your dream.

Following a dream means making sacrifices which may lead to insecurity in the face of popular culture and trends.  Society expects us to fit in and follow the well-worn path of life; birth, education, work, marriage, children, retirement, death.  Many people never stop to question this step-by-step approach to life and those who waiver from the path have been labeled by the masses as idealistic or naïve.  A typical life may bring fulfillment to the mass of men and many will find success and happiness within these confines.

It may work for some, but does it work for you?

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