Chew with an Open Mind

Six months ago I was making plans for my upcoming trip to Iceland.  Included in those plans was to eat rotten shark fin…it was a “traditional” food in Iceland and I wanted to have an authentic experience while I was there.  I told everyone I knew that I was going to eat shark fin, mostly just to see the shocked looks of disgust.  “Rotten shark fin?” they’d say.  I’d smile in affirmation.

I never did eat shark during my visit to Iceland.

I realize today that food, especially meat, isn’t some sort of novelty for my amusement.  In order to eat meat, something had to sacrifice its life, whether it was a cow, a chicken, a fish or a shark, an animal had to die in order for me to eat it.  I think that we omnivores often forget that reality because we’re disconnected from the farm and our meat comes from the grocery store wrapped in plastic.  We see a steak, not a cow.  We fail to recognize that that slab of flesh was once a living, breathing animal.

For the first time in my life, tonight I made the conscious decision to order a Vegan meal at my favorite restaurant.  Standing in line waiting to order, I felt like I faced a very difficult choice: either get my burrito the same way I always do, with steak, or I try the alternative and skip any animal products; no meat, no cheese, no sour cream.  Just beans, rice, tomatoes, lettuce and corn.  I took a chance and it was delicious.  I didn’t even miss any of the other ingredients.

The problem with meat isn’t that we’re eating it (some will argue this).  The problem is that we’re eating it without giving it the respect it deserves.  In the mornings we eat our bacon without concern for the pig that was killed for its spot next to our toast.  At lunch, our turkey sandwich tastes good but we forget that an animal died for its place between those slices of bread.  We don’t think about the living conditions that any of the animals are raised in.  We don’t question the treatment they received during their life or the treatment they receive at slaughter.  When’s the last time you were eating fish on a Friday night and asked yourself about the state of fish populations in our oceans?

When I was bragging to my friends about eating shark, my mind wasn’t thinking about the shark that would be caught, have its fins sliced off and then thrown back into the ocean to suffocate to death.  Six months ago, I didn’t know about shark finning.  And not too long ago I didn’t know about the dolphin slaughter in Taiji.  Until I saw a video of what happens in slaughterhouses across the United States, I hadn’t given much thought about the meat that I love to barbecue on weekends.

Knowing is half the battle and educating the public is crucial if we’re ever going to change the world.  This holds true in so many aspects of life besides meat; pollution, global warming, loss of biodiversity, deforestation, peak oil…most people, if they even know these things are taking place, are unaware of how it might affect them.  The reality is we’re all connected; the plants, the animals, the dirt and water.  They’re the reason the human species is able to exist and if we continue exploiting our natural resources until they collapse, the human species will collapse as well.

Learn and educate others about what is happening in our world.  Raise awareness and demand change from our leaders.  This isn’t only about saving whales or dolphins, it is also about preserving our own species.  It is about saving us from ourselves.

A World That Isn’t Ours

There are times when I get down on myself, when I feel like I haven’t accomplished enough in my 28 years of life on Earth.  I question whether I am making the right decisions, if I couldn’t be doing something else…something better.  And when I begin to doubt myself in this way, I feel like throwing everything I have right out the window and starting over from scratch.  Nothing would be spared.  I’d sell my Stuff and move to some exotic place, leaving behind all of my friends and family.

It would be my rebirth.

I could be anyone I wanted to be, anywhere I decided to settle and spend my time with whomever I chose.  I could make new friends and experience a life beyond my imagination.  Sometimes I find myself dreaming about the different places I could be…at this very moment.  Maybe I’d be running through Central Park or wandering the Great Wall.  I think about the type of person I could be.  Maybe I’d be a  wealthy clothing designer in Milan or a homeless transient wandering through the most beautiful places nature has to offer.  I could be this, I could do that, I could be there….but I’m not, thrice.

I dream of all the things I’m not, in the process forgetting all that I am and how good my life actually is.  I have a home, copious amounts of food on the table, nice clothes to wear and a girlfriend who shares my passion for travel and puts up with my (many) idiosyncracies.  I have everything I could ask for, I know it, and still I have moments when I want more, different, better.  I am consumed by thoughts of what I’m not and all that I don’t have.

Life’s forbidden fruits lure my mind into feeling this way, into the feeling that all that I am isn’t good enough.  Into the feeling that happiness is ”out there.”  All the beautiful places calling to me like a siren’s song, the smooth skin and plump lips of a beautiful woman across the room tempting me, the “promise” of a more satisfying life with more money.  All these things seductively asking me, “Is your life good enough?”  I feel like a child with my face pressed tightly against the display window of a candy store, looking into a world that isn’t mine.

And suddenly my perfect life doesn’t seem so perfect anymore.

As I imagine myself in that other, better life, I try to envision how that life would play out.  Would living somewhere else really make me happy?  I suppose it’s possible.  I am happier today than I was a year ago when I moved away from my hometown.  I wonder if a supermodel girlfriend would be any better than the girlfriend I already have.  It might be fun for a while but in the long run, I don’t know that things would really be that different.  Besides, Erin is beautiful and we get along great with each other.  Would new friends make life more interesting?  Maybe.  The friends I have now are really cool but more friends is never a bad thing.

Then what is the answer to these problems?

This is one of the fundamental issues with self-improvement; where to draw the line and accept the life you already have.  To know when good enough actually is good enough.  If we’re always seeking improvement in our lives, ultimately we will realize that there is no upper-limit.  There will always be more, different and better.  And someday we might find that we threw away a perfectly good life in our quest for an even better one.

There must be a point when we say to ourselves, “Yeah, that’s really nice but I’m happy just where I am.”

That point needs to come before we ruin the lives we already have.  We should improve our lives but within reason and rationality.  There is no reason to destroy a good life in our quest for greatness.  Real improvement comes from building from the foundation you’ve already established.  Improve the relationships, strengthen the bonds, improve your character, change your life for the better but without casting aside everything you’ve worked so hard for already.

As for that world that isn’t ours?  Maybe it isn’t ours for a reason…we just don’t know what the reason is and maybe we aren’t supposed to.

Life’s Limiting Reagent

One of the components of the fuel mixture on the Apollo lunar module involved a reaction with hydrazine and dinitrogen tetraoxide.  If the balanced equation for this reaction is:

2 N2H4 (l) + N2O4 (g) → 3 N2 (g) + 4 H2O (g)

What volume of nitrogen gas (measured at STP) would result from the reaction of 1500 kg of hydrazine and 1000 kg of dintrogen tetraoxide?

If it’s been a while since you’ve taken a Chemistry class, allow me to refresh your memory on (or introduce you to) limiting reagent problems.  The purpose of this problem is to identify which of the two reactants will be consumed first in the reaction, either the hydrazine or dinitrogen tetraoxide.  By determining which reactant is limiting, you can calculate exactly how much product, in this case nitrogen gas, will be produced.

Consider your own life.  Are there aspects of your life that you can identify as limiting your potential to grow, expand or produce?  Is there something preventing you from realizing your maximum potential?  Are you as happy as your heart tells you you ought to be?  Are you earning what you’re worth at your job?  Are you free from debt?  Does your schedule allow you to pursue goals, hobbies and passions or do you wish there was more time in the day?  Are you active and healthy or is it a struggle to climb a couple of flights of stairs?

Consider your own life and all the factors you have identified as being the limiting reagents.  Consider the money problems, your unsatisfying career and your neglected and deteriorating relationship with the love of your life.  Take a few moments to really consider your life and all that is limiting it.

Consider them and ask yourself, “What do all these things have in common?”

The answer is you!  You are the common bond and, therefore, you are the limiting reagent in your life.  Not the money.  Not the career.  Not the schedule.  Not the debt.  Not the kids.  Nothing is limiting your potential but you.  No one else is restricting your happiness.  The possibility of your life is only possible with your effort.

Your life is a chemical reaction.  If you want a little more product – more results, more happiness and satisfaction, more money, no debt, that old spark – you’ve got to add a little more YOU to the mixture.

Want to get out of debt?  Add a little more effort on your part to get out of debt.  Want to lose weight?  You have to start exercising and eating right.  Are you sick of your career?  Find a more meaningful method of supporting yourself financially.

You can’t expect a chemical reaction to happen without adding the right amounts of chemicals and you can’t expect your life to improve or progress any further without YOU being proactive and aggressive.  If you want more product,  you must add more YOU to the reaction.

Now that you’ve identified the real limiting reagent in your life, add as much of it as you can and produce as much product as your life will allow.

Class dismissed!

Hiking the Na Pali Coast Barefoot

The Na Pali Coast in Kaua’i, Hawai’i is undoubtedly one of the most beautiful places on the entire island.  There are no roads along the coast, so the only way to enjoy the amazing vistas is either by helicopter, boat or on foot.  The Kalalau Trail snakes its way along the entire eleven miles of coastline, from Ke’e Beach to Kalalau Beach.  Our destination for our day hike was Hanakap’ai Falls, a 410 foot waterfall 4 miles from the trailhead.  I hiked barefoot.

Why barefoot?

Aside from the challenge of hiking over rocks, navigating tangles of tree roots, trudging through mud and traversing numerous rivers along the way, being barefoot brings a person closer to nature.  Instead of feeling separated from the Earth, you are now a part of the system.  Each step is focused and intentional.

As you walk, you feel the changing terrain.  The mud oozing between your toes, the warm rocks and algae covered boulders on the river bottoms.  You are mindful of each moment of the journey, your mind never wandering.  All your concerns melt away from your consciousness, your mind is unshackled and unplugged.

One step at a time, you are focused only on the next, not the previous nor the one five minutes from now.  In our daily lives, we are constantly concerned with the past and the future, rarely considering the moment in which we are currently occupying.  “Should I have done things differently?” and “What will I make for dinner tonight?”  invade our thoughts.  Rare are the times when we stop and say, “I am here, now…I am blessed.”

We are lost in the past and the future, neither of which are reality.  The moment is now and finding a way be mindful of this moment, right here, right now, is what walking barefoot along the Napali Coast was meant to do.

And it worked.

I focused on each step, one by one.  Where was the next spot to put my foot down without getting injured?  The soothing feeling of the cold water as I crossed a river, the childish happiness as the mud squished beneath my feet and through my toes.  Each step was intentional and unique.

In the moments when my mind wanted to wander and think of other things, I paid the price with an accidental kick of a rock or slip down the muddy slope; the sting of pain a “gentle” reminder to be mindful of my journey.

After reaching Hanakapi’ai Falls, I rewarded myself with a swim in the pool beneath the falls, watching the water cascade from hundreds of feet above.  I had reached my destination, one step at a time and even though I no longer needed to focus on where I was walking, I found myself enjoying the moment without concern for anything but absorbing the beauty in which I was surrounded.

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